I'm sorry, it's not my fault that it didn't work out between you two and you went your separate ways, but I still have to deal with the mess.
That's taking time away from our already precious little time together, or making part of said time together way less enjoyable that it ought to be.
In fact, that is the big takeaway: Stop feeling guilty.
It was a closely-fought campaign that got dirty, but Virginia elected Democrat Ralph Northam to be its next Governor.
Women are certainly guilty of putting their kids ahead of their partner — maybe even more so than men, especially since they are nearly always the primary care giver in the event of divorce.