Teens also learn how to be both assertive and compromising, how to be giving to another and how to expect the same in return. Show them how you compromise, stick up for yourself, give and expect respect and argue but love your spouse. Tell girls that they do not need to have sex to keep a guy. Many kids are having these forms of sex because they tell themselves it’s not really sex. Then tell them about contraception and sexually transmitted diseases.
All of this is a sort of practice session in order to find “Mr.” or “Miss Right.” Unfortunately, too often teens start dating with no preparatory talks from their parents and then they can get into trouble. You hope they will wait to have sex, but if they don’t, it’s best that they protect themselves.
Teenagers still flirt, date, and fall in love - but with a whole new set of rules.
The world wants to define dating for your teenager.
Don't: Ask your teen's date to lead a one-hour devotion. Don't: Expect your teen to tell you every detail of the relationship. Because of your investment, you get to redefine dating and help your teen replace unsatisfying, casual relationships with godly dating.