[It’s like] the scene from Revenge of the Nerds, when Robert Carradine finally woos his beautiful blonde Betty in the moon bounce.
He never would have had a chance with her otherwise.
I do not think you should turn a guy down simply because he makes less than you do.
There are many things more important than his bank account — like his character. If the guy you start dating likes to play a lot and work occasionally (and has no problem with you footing the bill more than half of the time), this would end up in the “dating don’t” category for obvious reasons. or share your life with an amazing person who might not be as blessed as you are in the bank account arena?
Having a purse with no money in it is like being a firefighter that fights fires with a super soaker, you can’t get shit done. Broke girls are always looking for a Baller in the club.