Maybe I just accepted the fact that if I had truly wanted to be married or settled in to something by this point in my life, and not just told myself I did, that I probably would be. Or are we only supposed to think that but never say it out loud?
I don’t think anybody should give up on wanting to find a life partner.
I do think that as we grow older we need to shift our focus and expectations a bit.
If they are they’re dating women in their mid thirties or younger.
I hate to put it so bluntly but I think you need to accept that most of the men you’re meeting don’t plan on dating anyone for very long.
I think we use them more as a shield more than anything else.