Only exposing yourself to a safe and wide network of wealthy singles.
You can go to events frequently, move to a city hoping that you will exposed yourself to as many available 40s singles, or take up new classes trying to impress or have something to share.
But what you don’t realised is your own personal value that are important.
The 40s culture, usually are looking for serious relationship and want to know more about you.
However, do keep some special ingredient for yourself so that you will have things to impress them on the first date.
Singles over 40 usually have a much more mature mindset to accepting things.