That’s because being friends with him while he stays with his new girlfriend is not good for your emotional and mental health.
After you have spent enough time with him and he still haven’t made a decision, you have to be upfront about your intentions and tell him what you want.
However, if you really think he is someone special, then you can make the no-contact rule for just one or two weeks and carry on with the rest of the plan. Whatever the reason he left, you can fix that and get him back.
Again, don’t worry about him forgetting about you completely when you stay away. In fact, the more you stay away from him, the more he will miss you. But the next time he has a problem, will he run away again or will he try to work on the relationship?
Don’t even attempt to to harass them or find out what they are doing with your ex recently. Okay, I understand that you just want your ex boyfriend to come back to you as soon as possible. As you are reading this blog post, I assume that you want a long and loving relationship with him. Don’t worry about him falling in love with the new girl. This new girl is just a rebound and almost all of the rebound relationships end up in a breakup.
And if you want that instead of just wanting him back for a short while, you should make him realize that you are the best option for him. The first thing you need to do is leave your ex boyfriend alone. I know it’s a little hard to accept considering the small chance that this one does work out. And the reward for taking this small risk is getting your ex-boyfriend back for good.
Make him laugh, have fun, show him how much you’ve changed for the better, show him the new you and he will definitely start wondering whether he is in a relationship with the wrong girl.