If it’s a free site, I’d suggest sending an email about mundane things: “Hey, did you want to watch that movie tonight?
” If it’s not a free site, wink at him or use whatever free communication the site offers.
But by far, thier phone is the number one thing to look out for and if you can relate to even two of the items in the list above then you are on the right site.
Imagine how good it will feel when you confirm he or she only dating you. But now you can stop wasting time on people not worth being with.
That comes from knowing the people are out to play the field and waste your time. There's nothing wrong with wanting to do your homework when you meet someone before you get too serious.