I know, I know, it’s not the same, but if you’re truly committed to staying celibate, then you’ll want to look for healthy ways to get your needs met.
Finally, if you want to remain celibate while dating, create and maintain good boundaries.
When you pay your own way, your objective will be clear and he will not feel used if things don't work out. His ultimate goal is to gain carnal knowledge of you.
You can't hide your true emotions when you're having sex. If you ever get confused, ask yourself: Would you date a celibate man?
How long do you think a man is going to hold out without having sex? Your decision to remain celibate is based on your own personal, selfish desire to meet the man of your dreams and avoid getting hurt.
You want the rewards of a relationship without the collateral damage, and you're using your body instead of your brain as a bargaining tool.
Consider this: he may be sexually attracted to you. It shouldn't take you more than 90 days to figure whether you want to have sex or not.