Why is online dating bad


It’s not behavior I’m particularly proud of either. Why don’t I reach out to the dudes with the funny handles and good taste in books, the ones who post pictures with goofy faces and like tacos almost as much as I like tacos? I wish the evidence pointed to something else, something egalitarian and modern, but when I get real with my own online dating M. I’ve sent messages to guys before, sure, but the ratio is small. This is not how I want this work, but I condone it with my inaction.

Why do I not respond politely to every message, even the ones I’m not interested in? Once we make it out of the safe cocoon of the Internet and into the real world I’m better about aligning my actions with my values.

She will offer to split, but you think she doesn’t mean it and you don’t want to be a jerk.

You will march home to an empty inbox and the desire to spend another hour browsing and writing will start to fade.*****You might think online dating would create some much-needed “fairness” between the sexes.

I tell all my single guy friends to watch out for online dating.